Signs She Is Developing Feelings

You two are inseparable. Basically best friends. But you can’t stop wondering if maybe it could work romantically. You sometimes wonder if she is developing feelings—because you sure are. Does she like you more than a friend? Is she really developing feelings. Read the signs below and find out.

14 Signs She Likes You More Than A Friend and Is Developing Feelings

1. She shares everything with you
2. She touches you a lot
3. She gazes deep into your eyes
4. She always wants just the two of you to hangout
5. She starts to take an interest in the things you like
6. Her friends want you to date her
7. She laughs at all your jokes
8. She asks you questions about your goals
9. She points her body towards you
10. She asks you about what you look for in a girl
11. She texts you constantly
12. She teases you
13. She tells you that you make her feel like a kid again
14. She Show You a Different Side of Her

1. She Shares Everything With You

If you think she is developing feelings for you, but you’re not sure, but attention to how often she shares news with you. If she shares news of everything going on in her life with you, it means she feels a deep connection with you. Especially if you’re the first one she calls or texts to share something exciting that happened.

Conversely, if you’re the first one she calls when something bad happens in her life—this is still another good sign that she is starting to fall for you. This means that she is looking to you in her time of need for comfort and support. You have a special place in her heart and she’s looking to you in her time of need. 

2. She Touches You A Lot

Yes, we’ve covered this one in a lot of other posts if you’re a regular reader. When a girl frequently breaks the physical barrier it’s a pretty good sign she’s into you. She might look for any excuse to accidentally bump into, brush your arm, grab your thigh, even lightly punch you. If she’s frequently touching you, she probably is crushing on you hard.

3. She Gazes Deep Into Your Eyes

If she’s starting to like you as more than a friend, you might frequently find her staring into your eyes. Prolonged eye contact can be a powerful sign of attraction and romantic interest. If you frequently catch her smiling while she stares deep into your eyes—she’s probably into you.

4. She Always Wants Just the Two of You to Hangout 

If it’s frequently just you and her hanging out, without your other group of friends, she’s probably falling for you. When a woman wants to spend time with you alone, it can be a really good sign of her developing feelings. She might not be direct and admit it to you. But there’s a very good chance she likes you and is hiding it. 

5. She Starts to Take an Interest in the Things You Like

So she was never football girl, but then after hanging around you long enough, she starts to become interested in the sport—or at least fake it. She’s probably more interested in you than she is football. It doesn’t have to be sports though. If she suddenly takes an interest in the things you like, she is probably attracted to you.

6. Her Friends Want You to Date Her

If her friends start acting differently around you, she probably told them something about you. They might all of the sudden be acting extra nice towards you. They might ask you questions about her, or even flat out push you to date her. Girls talk to each other, and if she’s falling for you, her friends probably know.

7. She Laughs at All Your Jokes

We’ve covered this one before, so we’re not going to go too in depth with it. But if she laughs at all your jokes, even when they are lame, she probably likes you. This can be a good sign.

8. She Asks You Questions About Your Goals

If she starts asking you about your life goals, where you see yourself in a few years, the type of job you want to have, whether you want kids or not, this can be her judging the compatibility between you two. She could be gauging whether you two would work out in the long term.

9. She Points Her Body Towards You

Body language is a powerful indicator of attraction. If you learn to read body language, you might notice a lot of subtle clues that a girl secretly likes you. For example, if you are in a group setting, and you notice her body is is frequently facing in your direction, it could be a sign she’s really likes you. She might not even realize consciously that she is doing it. Pay attention next time to where she points her body, and you might be able to tell if she likes you or not. 

10. She Asks What You Look For in a Girl

If she brings up the subject of the type of girls you like to date, she might be gauging whether you would actually be interested in her or not. Bringing up the topic of dating could also be an indirect way of approaching the subject of you and her together. It could very well be a test. Yes, girls are confusing. Some girls are too shy to flat out admit they like you, so they might look for subtle ways to bring up the relationship topic with you, without saying it to your face.

11. She Texts You Constantly

If you two are always texting (or snapchatting), there’s a very good chance she has feelings for you. The need to be in constant communication with you is a good sign she is developing feelings. It could mean she needs to feel close to you and enjoys having your attention. To her it could be more than just a text convo.

12. She Teases You

When boys tease girls it usually means they like them. The same is true for girls. If she is constantly teasing you and taking friendly jabs at you, she probably is starting to fall for you. Next time your together pay attention to how she interacts with you. Notice any time she starts playfully teasing you, because this can be a good sign of her feelings towards you. 

13. She Tells You That You Make Her Feel Like a Kid Again

If she tells you that you make her feel like a kid again, it could be because she’s in love with you. When we’re falling hard for someone and spending time together everything feels magical. This is because spending time around loves one can cause the brain to release a neurotransmitter called dopamine. High levels of dopamine can make you feel energetic and euphoric(1). She might describe it as “feeling like a kid again,” but really it’s the chemicals in her brain that are being released when she is around the one she likes that are making her feel this way.

14. She Shows You a Different Side of Her

Does she act differently around you than she does with the rest of her friends, or your shared friends? If she shows you a side of her that your other friends don’t see, it could be because she feels connected to you, and trusts you enough to show the intimate parts of herself. You hold a special place in her mind and she’s comfortable opening up and showing you who she really is. This can be a powerful sign of her feelings towards you.

What Should You Do When She Has Feelings?

If you’ve read all the signs and you’re certain she’s developing feelings for you, then you only have one thing left to do. Act on it! Whether she’s scared to admit her feelings because she’s afraid of getting hurt, or afraid of rejection, you need to reassure her that you feel the same. Life is too short to waste around not acting on your feelings. So ask her out! Tell her how you feel. It’s on your hands now!