She texts you almost everyday and you’re really starting to like her. You’re wondering if she likes you too. It’s hard to read what’s on her mind through texting alone. You can’t really tell if she’s being flirtatious or not. Is she interested or not interested?
We’ve all been there before. Girls can be hard to read. You’re trying to gauge her interest level but your second guessing yourself, worried that you may just be overthinking it. You don’t want to complete misread the situation and embarrass yourself. Read below for the subtle signs to look for that she likes you over text
14 Signs That Will Tell You A Girl Likes You Over Text
- She teases you
- She texts a lot of emojis
- She constantly texts you
- She always replies
- She texts you first
- She asks about your plans
- She asks a lot of questions
- She sends you long texts
- She texts you whenever something exciting happens in her life
- She texts you whenever something bad happens in her life
- She texts you to hangout
- She sends provocative texts
- She sends flirty texts
- She asks about your love life
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She Teases You
If you find that she constantly makes fun of you over text, she probably likes you. Boys and girls are well known for having a tendency to tease their crushes. If you notice her taking friendly jabs at you and making fun of you in a playful way, she’s probably interested in you. So don’t get too offended if she’s poking fun at you—it’s because she likes you!
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She Texts You A Lot of Emojis
If she’s texting you a lot of emojis, she might like you. If there always happy emojis it’s probably a good sign. She’s trying to be cute. Especially if she’s sending you provocative or flirtatious emojis. Does she send you winks? Hearts? Kissy faces? She’s probably flirting with you.
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She Constantly Texts You
If you find that you two have been texting nonstop all day and all night, she might really like you. She likes talking to you. She likes having your attention and wants to stay connected with you. This can be a good sign of her feelings towards you. Although this could be a sign you’re really good friends, or a sign that she is lonely. Some girls also just like to text a lot. So don’t read too much into this if none of the other signs are displayed.
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She Always Replies
Does she always reply to your text? This can be a good sign she really likes you. On the other hand, if she constantly is the one to not text back in the middle of a conversation, there’s a pretty good chance she isn’t really that into you. A girl that always replies is a girl who is probably interested in you.
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She Texts You First
There are some girls who are too shy to send the first message. They feel like they might be annoying you so they’re afraid to text you first. But some girls do not have this insecurity. If you find that she always text you first, you’ve clearly been on her mind. Does she send you good morning texts? That’s a good sign, it means as soon as she wakes up your on her mind. That’s a good place to be.
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She Asks About Your Plans
Does she frequently texts you asking about your plans for the weekend or evening? She might be trying to get you to hangout with her. She might be too shy to directly ask you, but if she asks you about your plans she might be trying to get you to be the one to ask her to hangout. If it seems like she’s insinuating that she wants to hangout, she probably has a little crush on you.
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She Asks You A Lot Of Questions
Does it seems like she wants to know everything about you? If she asks you about your job, hobbies, passions, aspirations, family and interests, it’s usually a good sign. She finds you interesting and wants to learn more about you. She could also be judging you to see if you two would be compatible or not. Usually it’s a good sign she’s interested when she asks questions about you.
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She Sends You Long Texts
If you two have full blown conversations over text then it’s probably a good sign she likes you. Conversely if all she does is send you one word replies or “LOL,” she’s probably not that interested. You’ll know by the type of conversations you have whether she’s all that interested. A girl that likes you will probably put a little more effort to try to maintain a conversation.
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She Texts You Whenever Something Exciting Happens In Her Life
If she frequently texts you to share exciting news with you, it means she values the connection between you two. It’s an especially good sign if your always the first one she texts. It could something as simple as a promotion at work, a raise, maybe her friend got engaged, her aunt had kids. When something exciting happens in her life, she wants to share it with the people she loves. So pay attention when she shares news with you, it’s a good sign that you mean something to her.
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She Texts You Whenever Something Bad Happens in Her Life
The same is also true whenever she texts you about something bad that happened in her life. If something upsetting happened she going to look to those she cares about for comfort. If she is reaching out to you in her time of need, she is looking for your comfort and support. This means you have a special place in her heart.
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She Texts You to Hangout
If she always texts you to hangout it’s usually a good sign of her feelings for you. Especially when she just wants to hangout just the two of you alone. She wants to spend time with you and enjoys your company. That’s a good thing.
Now, if she doesn’t ever text you to hangout it doesn’t mean she doesn’t like you. Some girls are too shy and insecure to ask you to hangout. So keep that in mind when looking for this sign. Some girls won’t ever ask you to hangout, they prefer you to be the one to ask.
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She Sends Provocative Texts
Does she send provocative texts and emojis? She could definitely be into you. She’s trying to get your attention. She might be really attracted to you and she’s trying to test if you find her attractive too. Be on the lookout for provocative texts, because it could be a powerful sign of her attraction to you.
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She Sends Flirty Texts
If she sends you flirty texts it’s also a good sign. If her texts are fun and playful towards you, it means she’s comfortable with you and you make her feel good. She’s definitely enjoys your attention.
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She Asks About Your Love Life
If she asks you if your seeing someone, she’s probably interested in you. She could be asking about past relationships too. She’s trying to get an idea of the type of girls you date, and whether your single or not. This is usually a pretty good sign she’s been thinking about you romantically.
Conclusion
To recap we’ve covered 14 signs that you can look for in her texts to gauge her feelings towards you. Just be aware that not all women are the same. Some girls don’t even like to text. So don’t get too discouraged if she doesn’t display any of the signs. If she prefers to call you or snapchat you, most of the same signs will apply though.
If she only shows a few signs, you also can’t read too much into it. Especially if you two have been really good friends for awhile, she might just really friendly towards you and not actually have those kinds of feelings. It’s no secret that girls can be hard to read. By looking for the 14 signs we’ve covered, it should help you to get an idea of whether she has feelings or not.